Jun 152009
I constantly battle with this question because there are so many elements that go into the answer. There is the spiritual element that moves me one way and then there is the human element that pushes me another. Now I have discovered a parental element, but I am unsure to some degree what all that entails.
Should I go where I feel comfortable or should I attend where I can be of the greater use? Should I go to the church in my community or if I feel more comfortable should I drive the extra ten minutes to go elsewhere? Should I drive the extra if I am more needed nearby or should I stick with the church closest to me?
Let me know what you think….leave a comment below
Jonathan Tyler
Well… That is a very good question. I do think that above all the parental element is a huge one. I have recently switched churches due to the fact that they had no other little children. It is important to me that my children grow knowing Christ. I struggle with it myself every day. I know by going they are learning wonderful things. It is important they see other children going as well.
I feel that it is important you go where you can be of use. If you are doing Christ’s works you are going to feel comfortable there because you are doing what you are able to do and put what he has given you into work for Christ and not yourself. Are there the churches that you just can’t seem to go and learn? Of course. You need to make sure you are getting the most out of it and not leaving dullened by the experience. Church is to bring you closer to God and other brothers and sisters.
Hope this helps Bro. We have found to go where you are constantly being involved and doing things for the Lord and being able to watch your children enjoy walking into the door. With children Camden and Dominic’s age it is important they have something for them as well. It has been a great improvement watching Dominic get excited when we put him in his cradle roll chair awaiting class.
I feel with our childhood that it is important that Christ is the number one in all parts of life. We need to go somewhere we can put these talents to work.
I think choosing a church is easy. From the moment I sit in a church, I already have a feeling about it. You should most definitely feel comfortable in your church, and the people around you need to be approachable and very welcoming. But the real test is the pastor and leadership at the church. Is God speaking through him (I prefer men) or is he just reiterating his well-rehearsed message every week? Does the church talk the talk or do they walk the walk? Are they politically aware or do they vote for politicians who think abortion is a woman’s choice? I don’t think the pastor should be overly political but they need to address what is going on and not be afraid to talk about political issues. A good church should have programs and things to get involved with other than Sunday service. They must reach out to the community and help those in need. I think the best thing to do is write a list of what you need from a church and never settle for anything less. If you find a church you like and they off course then leave and find a new one. Your church has got to help develop your relationship with God and they also must be reaching out and growing.
Thanks for the comment, it is important to be in step with the church you are attending and knowing that not only do they support you and what you believe but you can feel comfortable supporting what they are standing for as well.